Trying to write romance novels with two children in the house isn't always the easiest thing in the world to accomplish.
Don't get me wrong. It's fun. Like, SUPER fun. But it takes a bit of thought.
I'm a realist. And I want what I write to be possible in the real world. Including the sex. That being said, it's probably quite entertaining to watch me as I imagine a love scene. I'm very much a kinesthetic learner. So, I'm usually physically moving my body around in my seat as I imagine my partner doing his thing. (Yes, I usually imagaine myself as a character.) And sometimes that can be hard to explain when you're not in my mind. My oldest gets it. But the youngest? Nope. Not yet. And that's okay.
Then again, sometimes the writer's/cock block is a good thing. And I mean, a VERY good thing.